Building Bridges - BRIDGE TO THE “OTHER PARTY” - January 18, 2026

The noise and the cost

Researchers are telling us the current political climate is not neutral on our souls.

Political division isn’t just bad for Congress.
It is bad for our hearts. Our sleep. Our relationships.

Americans increasingly feel the country is more divided than at any time in recent memory, and voters are not only split but intensely negative about the other side.
In this moment, are we going to be part of the problem or part of the healing?

Salt and light. Or gasoline and matches. Those are the options.

The Jesus Way: Loving “the other party.”

Matthew 5:43–45: “You have heard the law that says, ‘Love your neighbor’ and hate your enemy. But I say, love your enemies! Pray for those who persecute you! In that way, you will be acting as true children of your Father in heaven.”

This is not sentimental. This is not weak. This is not “be nice” Christianity. This is enemy-love. This is cross-shaped. This is hard-hitting, costly, Spirit-powered obedience.

Martin Luther King Jr. said,
“Hate cannot drive out hate; only love can do that. Hate multiplies hate… in a descending spiral of destruction… Love is the only force capable of transforming an enemy into a friend.”

Kingdom identity over party identity

Jesus offers a different center of gravity.

Philippians 3:20: “But we are citizens of heaven, where the Lord Jesus Christ lives.”

That means:

No earthly party gets your deepest loyalty. No platform gets to own your heart. No commentator gets the final word on your neighbor. The cross does. The empty tomb does.

Anne Lamott says,
“You can safely assume you’ve created God in your own image when it turns out that God hates all the same people you do.”

If our God hates exactly who we hate, we’re probably worshiping a mirror, not Jesus.

Jesus builds bridges in hostile places

Jesus creates a community where people who would never share a table share communion.

2 Corinthians 5:18–20: “And all of this is a gift from God, who brought us back to himself through Christ. And God has given us this task of reconciling people to him…So we are Christ’s ambassadors; God is making his appeal through us.”

Now our calling is clear: reconciliation, not escalation.

Justice, mercy, humility: The posture of a bridge-builder

Micah 6:8: “O people, the Lord has told you what is good, and this is what he requires of you: to do what is right, to love mercy, and to walk humbly with your God.”

Do what is right (justice).

We care about righteousness—about policies and systems that reflect God’s heart— but not at the cost of treating people as disposable.

Love mercy.

Mercy keeps justice from becoming vengeance. Mercy remembers that the person across the aisle is not a monster; they are an image-bearer with a story, a family, a soul.

Walk humbly.

Humility says, “I might be wrong about some things. I don’t see everything clearly. I need grace as much as anyone.”

What political division is doing to us (and why the church must be different)

This is about being a preserving, healing presence in a society that is emotionally and relationally coming apart.

The people of Jesus are not called to be the loudest ones in the room. We are called to be the ones who, when the world is tearing itself apart, quietly start building a bridge.

Be bridge-builders, not bomb-throwers

Romans 12:17–18: “Never pay back evil with more evil. Do things in such a way that everyone can see you are honorable. Do all that you can to live in peace with everyone.”

Here are some very practical, very countercultural ways to build:

1) See people, not positions. Before you see a label, see an image-bearer.

2) Listen to understand, not to destroy

3) Speak truth without losing love

4) Pray for them, not just about them

5) Practice small, concrete acts of honor

Bridge-building is not denial. It’s courage with boundaries.

We are all learning. We all need grace.

We are all living in a forgiveness school, but most of us aren’t paying attention to the teacher!

The witness of a bridge-building church

Not a church with no convictions, but a church with such deep conviction about Jesus that no party can claim us— and no neighbor can say they were hated in His name.

“Your love for one another will prove to the world that you are my disciples.” John 13:35.

Not your argument. Not your winning streak. Your love.

If not, it’s time to repent. Not from caring about our country, but from forgetting our King.

From using the name of Jesus to baptize our bitterness. Today, Jesus is inviting us to lay down the weapons of contempt and pick up the tools of bridge-building.

We were called to carry the wood of the cross and lay it down until there is a way for love to walk across.

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