The Table Discussion Questions - June 23, 2026 - PREDECIDE

— Table Discussion Questions

𝗣𝗥𝗘𝗗𝗘𝗖𝗜𝗗𝗘 𝗗𝗔𝗡𝗜𝗘𝗟 𝟭:𝟴–𝟮𝟭

👉 𝗦𝗧𝗔𝗥𝗧 𝗛𝗘𝗥𝗘 (𝗖𝗵𝗼𝗼𝘀𝗲 𝟭–𝟮 𝗾𝘂𝗲𝘀𝘁𝗶𝗼𝗻𝘀) These questions are designed to get everyone talking quickly. You do not need to answer all of them. Pick one that feels most alive at your table and start there.

1️⃣ What's a decision you made in the moment that you later wished you'd thought through ahead of time? What happened?

2️⃣ Are you more of a "plan it out ahead of time" person or a "figure it out as you go" person? How's that working for you?

3️⃣ When you feel pressure to go along with something that doesn't sit right — what's your default response? Do you tend to cave, confront, or go quiet?

4️⃣ Which part of tonight's teaching felt most personal or challenging to you?

🔎 𝗚𝗢 𝗗𝗘𝗘𝗣𝗘𝗥 (𝗖𝗵𝗼𝗼𝘀𝗲 𝟭–𝟮 𝗶𝗳 𝘁𝗶𝗺𝗲 𝗮𝗹𝗹𝗼𝘄𝘀) These questions are for tables that want to explore the ideas more fully. Feel free to skip or jump around.

5️⃣ The teaching suggested that most of us drift more than we decide. Do you think that's true? What does drifting actually look like in everyday life?

6️⃣ Daniel found a third option — not caving, not confronting, but calmly and respectfully asking for something different. Why do you think that middle option is so hard to find in the moment?

7️⃣ Is there a pattern in your life — something that keeps tripping you up — where you already know what you'd do if you had decided ahead of time instead of in the moment?

8️⃣ The teaching said "the decision made in the moment belongs to the pressure." Where have you seen that play out in your own life or in someone you know?

9️⃣ What makes it hard to believe that small, quiet, unseen decisions are actually building something — even when nobody's watching and nothing feels like it's changing?

🔟 How do you hold your values in a room where the culture doesn't match what you actually believe — without making it a fight and without disappearing?

🚶 𝗡𝗘𝗫𝗧 𝗦𝗧𝗘𝗣 (𝗖𝗵𝗼𝗼𝘀𝗲 𝟭 𝗯𝗲𝗳𝗼𝗿𝗲 𝘆𝗼𝘂 𝗲𝗻𝗱) These questions help move the conversation toward action, not perfection.

1️⃣1️⃣ Is there one decision you've been making in the moment — over and over — that you could actually make right now, in the quiet, before the pressure comes again?

1️⃣2️⃣ What would it look like for you to hold your convictions this week without making it a confrontation — and without going silent?

1️⃣3️⃣ What's one small, consistent thing you could do this week that nobody would notice — but that would be building something in you over time?

1️⃣4️⃣ Would anyone like to share what they're going to pre-decide — or would anyone like prayer for the courage to hold it when the moment comes?